Friday, May 31, 2024

31 May 2024 - Feelings

I heard somewhere, you have to be able to separate how you feel about someone and how that person makes you feel. They are two very different things.

That hits close to home. 

I feel like I really liked the Bozo, we had a good connection, similar senses of humour, we seem to get each other... But ultimately he has made me feel like a dirty discarded piece of tissue. He hurt me and yet I still want to see him, want to talk to him. I still feel so strongly about him. It's stupid.

He makes me feel shit and this is what I need to remember. 

Last night I had a very intense dream about him. He was in the same place I was... It felt like my home or my work place or some place that was my usual place to be, not his usual place... But he was there and I just couldn't look him in the eye. Why? Perhaps for fear of rejection, for fear of having emotions. 

I turned my head down, hoping he wouldn't see me, avoiding his gaze. Which seems silly because for the past few months I have wanted nothing more than to see him appear outside my door. I have wanted to throw my arms around him, for him to hold me tight in his arms.

But no, instead I turned my head down to avoid confrontation. And then later on in the dream, he came to talk to me and I couldn't avoid it anymore. 
I cried. And he tried to ask me why and I couldn't answer him. I wanted to slap him, I wanted to yell at him, to tell him I trusted him but he hurt me. 

Fuck. 

And then I don't remember the rest of the dream. 

What a let down. 

It's been a tough week. 
I miss Sooty so much and then this stupid man keeps infiltrating my thoughts. My stupid head and heeart won't let him go. 

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